CreatingKendra

A Taste of Home

2011-11-01T07:32:00.000-04:00

Sometimes it's the little things...

like finding familiar things in a candy store

(or calling it a 'candy store' and not a 'lolly shop.' Hey, is that Captain Crunch?)

and knowing what they'll taste like before I buy them

(yeah, some of those 'regular' sized candies are nearly $3, it's only a rare treat!)

and seeing foods that bring back childhood memories

(what!?! are those Pop Tarts over $3 for a two pack?? yes, yes they are.)

This lolly shop I 'discovered' on a work trip to Sydney. It was bittersweet discovery. While it was fun to see so many candies and foods from 'home', it made me miss so many other things. And yes, for those that know me, I did end up teary-eyed. I called 'home' and cried a bit...

Then, I wandered the shop, smiled at all the familiar sights, reminisced a bit, and walked away without buying a thing. ...this time...

;-)

What do you think you would miss?

Lining Up?

2011-10-25T06:45:00.000-04:00

Look...

Can you see it?

In the picture, what do you see?

No, not the cute one in braids making a funny face at me...

(but if you're wondering, she gets that from her brother!)

Look again...

(did you? Really, look at the pic)

They're lining up to the door for a Slurpee! :-)

And what's even better... this is in my 'suburb'. :-D WooHoo!

okay, so it's a bit of a walk, but I can drive there in two minutes.

Yay for 7/11's in Wollongong!!

Yay for one opening near me!

Yay for beating the line!

Now, who wants to come share a Slurpee?!

~~~

Feelin' Blue...

2011-10-21T20:00:00.000-04:00

Darian was feeling a little blue... If you've seen recent pics, you'll know that this has washed out... but for those far away, it might be fun to see these...

What can I say?

Have you ever tried to take a picture of D?

It's not an easy task. He's got impressive timing.

Trying again.

A good shot of the hair colour at least.

Strike three?

Yet antoher face... but a good shot of the blue hair.

(it was easier to adjust to the blue than the bleached blonde)

Already washing out a bit.

Personally, I like the two tone look... would have worked well for my old high school, as it does with the U of M shirt he's wearing.

(notice the netball games going on in the back ground... good Aussie pastime!)

Never thought I'd have a blue haired child... but hey, guess I lost my vote a long time ago. ;-) And I'm slowly realizing that's a good thing. :-)

Voices in my Head

2011-10-20T19:45:00.000-04:00

Okay, so they're not really in my head, but on the screen. However this voice is more real, more honest, more positively transparent than any I've heard. It's refreshing. It's inspiring. It's healing and hopeful. to me.

The thoughts in this post resound with my soul. They shout and scream. Often, I feel the power and insight in what she writes. This one is no different. Or perhaps it's different by being more clear and true.

Have a 'listen'. Or don't.

One Jesus - Jamie, The Very Worst Missionary

What do you think?

Minamurra Rainforest Walk

2011-10-16T01:45:00.000-04:00

About once a month, I have a bonus day off from work. Actually, I work an extra half-hour each day so I can have the RDO (rostered day off). It's part of the company I work for. I like it!

I've been able to curl up with a book, catch up with friends, extend a long weekend, and stroll through the markets. Plus, some days I get to hang with my sweetheart! :-)

Here's some pics from our most recent adventure....

Family Day

2011-10-01T20:36:00.000-04:00

One of our favourite family haunts is Shellharbour Village, just south of where we live. It was one of the first places Shawn and I visited when we checked out the area in 2007. We stayed in a caravan park that's just off the shore of some of these shots.

I love that our kids are still okay with hanging out with the family now and again. However, it's not unusual for out house to be quiet and without kids more and more often. I'm not sure I'm ready for this stage of life.

We started out the afternoon by enjoying some fish and chips at a nearby shop. Still searching for the best spot to get fish and chips... this wasn't bad, but there's better in Kiama. If you don't believe me, come check it out yourself! ;-)

Family shot...

on a very blustery day. :-)

at the harbour.

Trying to push Dad over...

I love these Daddy & daughter shots.

Making D have a photo with me.

And he's smiling!! :-) Bonus!

I really like the angle on this pic... don't look so short here.

Father and son.

Me and my girl!

Such a beauty! :-)

Sweethearts!

I was laughing 'cuz the wind was causing havoc!

Precious siblings.

my how they've grown....

Ninja moves on the rocks.

Silly kids!

Love that!! :-)

B trying to be the 'bigger' sibling.

and D just going along with the fun.

The slow motion race...

...or just being obnoxious because someone was taking so many pictures.

now who would that be??

heading home...

walking away

2011-09-19T07:42:00.000-04:00

The last year has been a hard one for me. There has been a feeling of betrayal, confusion and pain. Through it I have struggled in my 'walk with God.'

Recently, I've been thinking...
If you walk away from church, does that mean you're walking away from God? Now, I know that some folks will resoundingly say 'YES!' from the top of their lungs.

But, what if the 'church' walked away from you first?
Does that change anything? What if, a group of people you've loved, worshiped with, and committed to just decided that you weren't what they wanted anymore and cut their ties? Of course, it would be in a loving, sweet worded manner. There would be lots of proper things said, but the message was still clear enough, you're not accepted as you are.

Then what?

Gypsy Girl

2011-09-11T06:54:00.001-04:00

Last week for school, B had a 'Medieval Day' and got to dress the part. She's made a great 'Gypsy Girl'.

Here's a couple shots. :-)

Close up.

Such a beautiful smile.

Lovin' all those colors.

... and the layers too

Posing with a bit of flair.

Love this girl!

And, she wore this outfit to the shops twice! So fun! :-)

On a cold, wintry day

2011-06-18T07:47:00.000-04:00

It happened last Monday, on a cold, wintry, rainy day. A day where you'd like to stay inside curled up by a fire with a good book and a warm tea.

But those weren't the plans we had for last Monday. Instead, after a nice sleep in (it was the Queen's birthday after all), we headed off to the beach. Now, that might sound like a great idea for those of you in the Northern Hemisphere, but June is not summer here, it's winter! And it was sure feeling winter-like that day. Brrr...

Don't fret though, there was a pretty good reason to head off to a deserted beach on a cold, wintry day. Brenna wanted to be baptized, and she wanted to do it in a place that was special to her. :-) It was a beautiful sentiment and I love that she put so much thought into this step in her journey.

Heading into the water...

Thankfully, where we were, the rain had stopped.

It may not look deep,

but when the waves came in it was much higher.

She also wanted just a few people there. To her, it was not about the show or the attention, but about taking a step in her faith journey. A beautiful, powerful step after the events of the past year plus.

A loving hug that adds some warmth.

Drying feet and bodies.

After some time in the water and a bit of drying off and wrapping up, we headed back up towards the pool area and locked bathrooms to find some sheltered space to get out of wet clothes. :-)

Brenna after the event.

If you look closely, you might see the rainbow that showed up over the water.

It's directly above the silver handrail over the water.

The small group

a sweet look from a loving brother

definitely a daddy and daughter moment

a photo op with and added 'get warm' snuggle.

We also enjoyed some lovely visits, cool breezes, and lots of hugs and smiles. (and creative ways of staying warm, but that's a picture for another time) The girls ran off to play on the sand hills full of laughter and joy. After, we all gathered back together for some hugs and special words or blessings with Brenna.

It was beautiful and heartwarming, on a cold, wintry Monday.

Wordless Wednesday - Getting Pumped

2011-06-08T07:14:00.001-04:00

B's New Sport

2011-06-05T05:45:00.000-04:00

B's having a go at a new sport. A sport unknown to the vast majority of Americans, but loved by those in Commonwealth nations... Netball!

There are seven positions on the court. Of those seven, B's played four. (I think). She's learned the game quickly and ROCKS at the defensive positions she's played but prefers the attack positions. She's not too into shooting... I think it might have to do with the lack of a backboard and a totally different style to shooting than basketball.

Here are some shots of recent games.

Getting positions and a pep-talk from the coach.

Each positions has certain parts of the court they're allowed in and restricted from, so they have to wear 'bibs' that identify their position. B's wearing "WA" here which stands for 'Wing Attack"

Getting a pass, or intercepting one.

The passes are often thrown high.

She's got the ball...

and can only move one foot, the foot she didn't land on

and can't dribble (wrong sport)

and only has three seconds to pass

Looking to pass again...

The girls to the right of the line can't cross it,

so they'll help with a pass if needed, but otherwise just wait.

a different position... Goal Defense

B's the one with the "GD" on her back

a similarity to basketball...

throwing the ball in :-)

Now she's playing "GK" or Goal Keeper

and she's trying to block the shot,

but has to set her feet three feet away before she defends.

There you have it... a brief look at B's newest hobby. :-) It's fun to play even if it does take a while to learn the rules.

A Championship Season

2011-05-29T07:21:00.001-04:00

I've had this requested on a couple different fronts... so here's some pics of D and his NSW state champion football (gridiron for Aussies) team.

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Wollongong Brumbies

2011 NSW Champions

Pre-game huddle... firing up the team

"Who are we?"

"BRUMBIES!"

Cheering on the team

Brumbies' fans...

Yes, B and I made signs and a little pom-pom for the game!

I didn't get any game pics, 'cuz I was too busy cheering.

(read yelling loudly and jumping around)

D listening to the trophy presentation.

D and two of his fans.

The 'non-Griffith' guy is a friend from school...

gotta love that a friend wanted to drive up to Sydney with us to watch the game. :-)

Shawn and D

Love the photo... and their laughter in it.

Me and my little boy...

uh... he used to be little.

(it was a cold night!)

This season B moved from reading through the games to cheering along with me.

Another thing to love! ;-)

I'll try to add couple shots from earlier in the season in another post...

(when I wasn't so distracted... or stressed)

Wordless Wednesday - in honour of Valentine's day

2011-02-16T06:07:00.000-05:00

Shrimp on the Bah-bie

2011-02-14T07:31:00.000-05:00

In a time-honoured Aussie tradition, we had some barbecued prawn (among other yummies) for lunch on Australia Day last month. (and in a Kendra-honoured tradition, it's a bit overdue)

While one might think that prawn and shrimp are the same thing, in my humble opinion, they are quite different. I am not a fan of shrimp (and never have been), but I have had some prawn here that is quite tasty. And it's not just the taste either, the texture's different too. Well, to me anyway. ;-)

picture-perfect prawn

peeled, seasoned, and grilling to perfection!

Our dear friend, the barbecue master!

note the cooked snags (sausages) and burgers on the side

mmm..

oh, and a little pan to cook some egg in for the burgers!

Ya gotta love an Aussie burger.

Shawn having a go at the barbecue.

lookin' good, love!

That's not good form.

Back away from the prawns.

;-)

Brenna's plate.

inspired by Masterchef, I think.

Darian's plate

it's got a bit of everything (except the snag)

burger w/ egg (on the bottom), prawn, fried rice

lamb, and a tasty salad with a coke!

What a spread!

Thank you, Tyler family!

Back in Uniform

2011-02-13T05:44:00.000-05:00

The kids have started back to school for the new school year. They're both entering a new phase of schooling as well. D is beginning his 'higher' school years (11 & 12) which will end in a big test. B is starting high school at a new school. So far, it's going well. New adventures for both of them. (and more letting go for me... hmmm...)

First day of school

full uniform... well, except the hat.

a closer shot

so far, favourite class = French!

First day

thankfully, still humouring mum. ;-)

getting closer

he might be laughing at me...

They make me one proud Momma!

The Dapto Show & my New Calling

2011-01-28T07:23:00.001-05:00

Last weekend, Shawn, Brenna and I went to the Dapto Show. This is similar to a county fair in the states. You know, aiming for the prized tomato or pie, horse shows, rides, greasy food and hot weather. It was all there!

We went because Brenna had a painting submitted from school. It was wonderful!! We saw a couple pieces from kids at her 'former' school and lots of baked goods, crafts, veggies, flowers and photos! Lots of talent in the show. We also enjoyed watching the show jumping and thought of family and good summer memories. :-)

Here are some highlights!

The three of us watching the show jumping and chopping.

Taking a jump.

Looks good to me. They had to have a jump off!

but nobody's hair matched the horse... hmm...

a bit of the long chopping competitions.

fascinating.

hey, is that my brother there on the right??

although I did wonder about wearing the white pants....

Humoring me with a pic.

Isn't she a sweetie!

a closer look at her painting.

a local celebrity from "Junior Masterchef"

an Aussie cooking, elimination tv show.

going for a ride

:-)

Oh! And did I mention the camel racing??

I think it would be fun to have a go!

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and, now, I know you've been waiting to hear all about my new calling!!

Well, check these out...

what a shot!

can't you feel the anticipation of the slam?

such feeling and emotion here

caught in the act...

Don't you think I have a future in wrestling photography??? ;-)

I mean, those are some fabulous action shots!! with just a 'point and shoot' camera even! Amazing.

Come on now... be honest...
;-)

Family Photo

2011-01-24T06:33:00.000-05:00

don't be too critical... we did it ourselves.
:-)

2011

the kids

2011

The Eve and The Day

2011-01-22T05:44:00.014-05:00

After a bit of a delay, here the rest of our Christmas celebrations.

In the States, Christmas Eve was a big family day. Without family here, we were a bit sad and lost last year, so we opted to start a new tradition... a family trip to the movies! We enjoyed that even again this year.

On Christmas Eve evening, we gathered with some friends for a 'picnic' dinner, carols, and some reflection. It was a beautiful time. Wonderfully casual with focus on community and love.

the kids with a friend and some Christmas bush!

a sweet friend brought me this bunch of Christmas bush flowers!

until then, I didn't know they excited

S and some mates

B having some fun and silliness

Christmas day, we woke up (I'm still telling the kids a 'wait till' time... of course it used to sound different... wait till 7 is the first number before you get up... now they tell time...) and enjoyed time as a family. It's nice that some things don't change. It was beautiful seeing the kids so thoughtful and caring with their gifts. :-) Then we Skyped with some family. I am so thankful for Skype!

our little tree

the tree skirt was a 'ham bag' that I got as a gift from work. ;-)

After a bit, we joined some friends at their family Christmas dinner/lunch. What an amazing meal!! There were traditional roast meats (but served cold, it was a hot summer day after all), chicken, pork and lamb. Plus, the very Aussie, fresh, peel-your-own prawn (large shrimp). But the star of the meal were the numerous salads. Unbelievable!! yummy spinach, roast pumpkin and other goodies salad; chicken, walnut and grape salad; green bean, sweet potato salad just to name a few. Oh my!!

After some visiting, clearing dishes, playing for the kids, the desserts came out!! Wow! Traditional pavlova, trifle, and Christmas pudding/cake. Better than the food though, was sharing the day with several generations of a fabulous family!

enjoying the fellowship and fun

all three desserts

Christmas cake, pavlova, and trifle

Pavlova

my favourite!

And we weren't done yet!!

We stopped home for a bit of a refresher, grab some drinks, and 'goodies', then we were off again... over to our friends, the Tylers. The invited us to join them for a Christmas barbecue last year and we were welcomed there again. Looks like another new tradition. The kids got to enjoy a couple of the Tyler Chrissie pressies... a slip-n-slide (I did say it was a hot day), a trampoline, and giant Nurf guns! We had more good fun with great folks and yummy food.

hangin' out with friends

a repeat crowd from last year! :-)

the Shawns

my Shawn's shirt was a gift from his son

it reads, "Dads Against Daughters Dating"

D getting in on the fun...

he was a bit long for the slide, but enjoyed it anyway!

B after a good ride

she could aim the distance perfectly

even time for a bit of "gridiron"

D's big present this year.

B enjoying the trampoline

with some squirt guns

the Nurf guns came out

and no one was safe!

Lots of food, friends, and fun. Plus some family thanks to Skype!

Christmas, Aussie Style

2011-01-15T05:54:00.001-05:00

Chapter 1
No, really. I've got too many pics I want to add for one bit, so I'm doing it in two parts. I'm all about parts these days, it seems.

We were invited to a couple Christmas parties before the big day. It was wonderful to share in the celebrations with new friends and learn some Aussie traditions. Although during two parties, my work one and a fancy dinner, I forgot to get out my camera. So, I hope you enjoy a couple shots from the other fun gatherings.

What do ya do w/ your 'mates' for a Christmas party?

Grill on the barbie' of course!

Shawn's in the dark shirt back by the grill helping cook.

It was sort of like a 'pot luck'...

everyone brought their own meat to grill and a side or dessert to share.

YUM!!!

During a mystery, stealing, gift exchange...

where some fun Australia stuff was in a gift

which made every rise and sing the national anthem,

'Advance Australians Fair'.

A family style Aussie Christmas dinner...

A beautifully decorated table!!

serving prawn and baramundi with mango salsa

So delicious!!

and fresh prawn and smoked salmon

(you peel the prawns before eating... it's an acquired skill)

(we're not there yet)

Also some fresh cherries, synonymous w/ Christmas.

a cute shot of the table decor

the silver bit is a 'cracker' or 'bon-bon'.

Two people pull the ends....
for a big "crack" (like a pop-gun) and some goodies
that usually include a crown and a corny joke

D in his crown.
(I didn't make him take a 'nice' pic after making the face for this one, so it's what ya get)

B wearing her crown and a smile!

S and I :-)
We had an amazing dinner and visit with friends.

Catching Up (Part 3) - Finishing Strong

2011-01-12T06:31:00.011-05:00

D with his newly awarded School Certificate! :-)

He had to keep up grades in all 'key learning areas' and then pass exams on each subject... which included Australian History and Australian Geography. An impressive task for being in the school system for less than three semesters!!

Me and my little boy!

Yes, I made him 'shrink' for the photo...

but I don't think I'm foolin' anybody.

B with her awards...

an Appreciation award for serving in the library

and...

'Student of the Year' :-)

She made the most of her final year of primary school.

Well done, B!!

my baby girl and I

Though I didn't have to make any adjustments to this pic, it won't be long before she passes me up... as she often lets me know. ;-)

Catching Up (Part 2) - Formals & Farewells

2011-01-10T07:33:00.001-05:00

Sometimes, it just hits me. I know it shouldn't be a shock, but sometimes, it just is.

My kids are growing up.

They're not little, cuddly ones anymore. They're needing much less these days. All good things, I know, but sometimes, it just doesn't seem right.

The last bit of 2010 had two big moments for the kids.

Darian had his Year 10 Formal. Over here, Year 10 is a big year that ends with a big test. It used to be the end of formal schooling for those who wanted to go into a technical trade. (now things have changed a bit) So, amidst studying and before the big tests, Darian had a formal. He went stag w/ some friends. I only got pics before he left.

the boys before they left

Shawn jumping into the pic.

The finish of primary school is celebrated with a Year 6 Farewell. This is a less-formal formal, but still a big celebration that includes a 'bush dance'. Brenna, as School Captain, spoke at the Farewell this year.

before the event

suffering through some sibling pics before the dinner

(wish I would have had B pose w/ D his his fancy clothes)

the parents getting in on the action.

(again, should have done this w/ D, but he likely would have just made faces)

I wish I could have been there during both events to take pics and share the memories, but I guess that's slowly being worked out of my job description.

Catching Up (Part 1) - Thanksgiving

2011-01-08T19:43:00.001-05:00

In 2010, we had our second Thanksgiving in Australia!
(and I'm just a bit behind in posting, I know... but I'm trying)

It was a blessing to gather with friends and reflect on things we're thankful for. I think some of the adults thought we were a bit corny and some of the kids' friends figured we're just weird, either way, I enjoyed the moment of sharing. The past year had been quite rocky and sharing some of the positives was a beautiful moment.

Here are some of the highlights in picture. Sadly, we didn't get a group shot this year. But we did have a delightful group to share in our day.

The meal changed a bit this year, since last Thanksgiving was such a HOT spring day, we opted not to do all the hot foods. And we were very lucky that our neighbors offered us the use of their house/oven since they'd be out during the day. So, we cooked our turkey there, since it was going to be another HOT day! We asked our guests to bring something that's a family favourite. So, 'rice paper rolls' and mangos joined the meal, making the day a little more Aussie.

Moving the turkey was a group effort!

The lovely flowers in the front, right corner of the pic were brought to me by one of D's friends. A very sweet gesture and my first ever Thanksgiving flowers.

Some of the girls waiting for 'dinner' playing a game.

On the table are the place cards that Brenna made.

Some of the boys wait to eat... playing a game of their own.

(and putting up with me taking pics!)

Carving the turkey.

It was the very largest one we could find, and I was quite sad that it wasn't near my 'normal' 20+ pound bird... until I realized it wouldn't have fit in the oven if it was any bigger.

Sitting down to eat.

Not as good as a group pic as a couple folks are not in the shot and you can't see everyone's faces, but it's the best I've got.

One of my favourite pics!!

Two of our Aussie friends trying pumpkin pie.

It wasn't bad... but it wasn't quite right.

Pumpkin here is eaten as a vegetable, usually roasted, or in casseroles or soups.

It was a good effort, but the sweetness of the pie lost in the end.

We were so blessed to share the day with some wonderful new friends making new memories, but we all missed the family that we've shared so many Thanksgivings with in the past.

Look what I found!! Again!

2010-12-16T07:06:00.001-05:00

I can barely believe this!

On a 'recent' trip to pick up some friends from the airport, Shawn and I discovered that their plane had been delayed. So, we opted to drive somewhere nearby to avoid outrageous airport parking fees. I followed him, thinking we were headed to Micky D's... but we turned a bit earlier and discovered....

Krispy Kreme!!!

WooHoo!!!

Now, I must confess that although Shawn knew it was there, I had somehow missed that bit of info. So, I was very excited to see some familiar, sugar-loaded, nice-n-tasty donuts! Yay!! And, I didn't have just one! I had two!! I'm makin' up for lost time, ya know?? ;-)

On the way out I saw this bit of fun...

isn't it cute!

So, what started out as a trip to the airport for some friends (which we did find with a welcome home sign and all) included an added surprise! :-)

3... 2... 1... GO!

2010-12-14T06:45:00.005-05:00

...for a ride on the Giant Swing...

A couple months ago (yes, I know, I'm that far behind... but this is worth sharing), the kids and I went to a nearby camp with a group we're involved in. Our purpose was to help out and connect with some folks in the community, but luckily we got to have some fun too!

Here's a couple shots of the kids getting ready and going for a swing. (it's like a zip-line for those in the states, but with stationary poles instead of a line to 'zip')

D all suited up... safety first.

WooHoo!!

B's ready for a go.

Starting to get pulled up.

And she's off!!

Look, she's flying!

Lined up by the rope waiting to pull up someone.

(actually, this is what D and B did most of the day,

their swings came near the end of the group)

I had a turn too, but the kids opted not to take pics of me. They had the camera and thought it best to take a video. Don't know what will happen with that yet. ;-)

Caught in the Act...

2010-12-12T06:39:00.000-05:00

Well, actually, before the act.

This is Bren and one of her friends before a 'recent' drumming performance.

I tried to take some pics inside during their drumming (which was absolutely fabulous!), but it was too dark and I was too far away. It was a great performance. She's loved her experience drumming this year.

I'm thankful for all the opportunities she's had at school, and outside school, this year. She found some new interests and had some wonderful experiences. :-)

Never thought I would!

2010-11-17T07:30:00.000-05:00

I know how I am as a mom. Well, at least I think I know that. I have been a pretty strict mom... bedtimes are non-negotiable. So are tv limits... what's allowed to watch and when. Dinner is only what's offered, there's not a selection. There's a line and it's not allowed to be crossed.

There are certain things I would say that I would never allow to happen. I'm not talking about the "big" issues, just things I wouldn't see as copacetic! (being okay)

Well, I am about to cross that line.

I am about to allow something (eek! I even masterminded it) that even just a couple years ago, I never imagined I would.

Tonight, I am taking my daughter to the a first showing of a movie. Doesn't sound too bad like that, does it? Now consider it's a midnight showing AND it's on a school night!! What am I thinking??

But, this is not just any movie, a movie based on books she has read multiple times, books that pushed her into preferring long, thick stories and becoming a great reader. Stories she's adored and re-enacted with friends during her younger years. Stories that show the value of friendship, determination, and creativity just to name a few. Yes, we'll be going to see Harry Potter 7. And we're both so very excited!

Sometimes, rules are made to be broken. Sometimes, it's more about seizing the moment and experiencing life (even silly, little things like movies), than about watching the 'line'. 'Cuz ya just never know when the moment will come again. ;-)

Well, that's what I'm telling myself today.
;-)

(and for those of you worried about D, he's off having fun on a school trip, we're not leaving him out)
(and yes, Shawn is in on it, but I was only telling my story)

Anyone like a Cuppa?

2010-11-16T07:09:00.000-05:00

Recently, we invited some friends over for dinner. They couldn't come by for dinner, so these friends said they'd stop by earlier for tea.

Like any calm, reasonable adult I thought, "WHAT?? What am I suppose to do with that??"

Americans don't do "afternoon tea" (or morning or evening tea for that matter)! We don't even know there's a difference between afternoon and evening tea. Needless to say, I was feeling a little lost...

Thankfully, I managed to pull myself together. Even more thankfully, the friends stopping by were gracious. Very gracious. We had tea. And, if I didn't do it properly, they never mentioned it. We enjoyed our tea with a lovely cake they brought along, chatted, and had a great time together. But I felt way out of my element.

This makes me think that oftentimes it's more the effort we make, than actually doing something "just right".

Or at least that's what I'm telling myself. ;-)

Wordless Wednesday - D

2010-11-10T06:04:00.002-05:00

Look what I found!!

2010-11-08T02:39:00.010-05:00

Can you see it?

Some bagpipes and MIK!

(that'd be men in kilts!)

A Scottish Fair right near us. WooHoo!
(it was a cold and windy day)

One of the fun moments was watching some 'strong men' competitions. Although we missed the caber toss and haggis hurl, we did see a couple events. (sadly, they're the ones I don't know the names of)

A pipe band off marching to perform.

(That's Mt. Kembla in the background)

Some of the competitors watching their events.

Aren't those kilts wonderful! I think it's quite fun..

A closer pic of some of the pipers. Lovely sight! This was the end of the event with a massed bands performance. It was a delightful Saturday, not quite MI RenFest, but best Scottish fix I've had in a while! ~~~~~ Gotta love the hubby who made sure I got there. :-) I'm a lucky gal.

Milestone Moment

2010-11-06T19:30:00.000-04:00

In life there are some moments that you know are markers of change. While change is inevitable, (or so they say) some change just hits me a bit more while other change is slow and sneaky. The same is true with my kids.

Throughout their lives, there have been moments where immediately things were different.... when they became mobile, started communicating, went to school... are a few obvious ones. They're good moments in that they show wonderful progress and growing independence. But, to me, these changes also include a bit of sadness 'cuz they mark the end of a 'era'.

Yesterday, one such changed happened....
The whole family went out to an event in Wollongong, Viva la Gong. It was a fun day with music and performers, food, merchandise stalls (including several fair trade one), and kids activities. Good fun!

After spending some time together listening to the music, visiting w/ some friends we bumped into, we decided to wander in different directions. I had Brenna. We went through the children's area and she found a craft that interested her. This is a familiar, comfortable event.

Then, the moment came... after a lifetime of waiting in lines for face painting, she wanted a henna tattoo. I know, it's not shocking, or really unexpected, but it does shout inside my head, "Where has my baby gone!?!"

Some changes, I'm just not ready for... ;-)
But take a look, the artwork is GREAT!

just last year...

.

yesterday...

Different art, same smile

(Disclaimer: the daughter just came in and said, "I still like face paint." So, maybe it's not such a big change after all.)

(and here's hoping that there'll be some more blogs in the near future... sorry, folks)

Wordless Wednesday - Official Duties

2010-10-13T08:30:00.000-04:00

That Didn't Work

2010-10-12T05:54:00.000-04:00

Well, my attempt to re-enter regular blogging wasn't as successful as I'd hoped. I only got one post in last month. Not very impressive. (don't know if anyone noticed... well, except my mom...)

So, I'm trying again. There's something to trying again, right. Or as Thomas Edison said, "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." So, I'll try to keep posting regularly, if only for my mom. ;-)

In case anyone out there was wondering, I haven't been avoiding my readers. (that's you, Mom) Sometimes, I just didn't have much to say. Occasionally, I has something to share, but couldn't get it quite right. Once in a while, I wanted to say something that wasn't nice, but then I remembered that Mom always told me "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." So I didn't. ;-) (okay, that really didn't happen much, but it was fun to write) Recently, however, I've been busy with some work. I've gotten another "casual" job where I work two days a week and other days if they call. (I've worked most of the last three weeks for them! crazy)

But enough excuses! ;-)
Here's my first post of a new attempt. Cross your fingers!

I'll leave ya with a pic...

Family game time!

and snacks

Although after an unfortunate incident playing this game in PA, I have been banned from participating. I do stand on the sidelines and cheer on the players. It's better all around. ;-)

Long Overdue...

2010-09-09T19:33:00.000-04:00

... No, I'm not talking about my library books. ;-)
(Those are fine, we get emails letting us know when they're due)

However, an updated blog post is overdue. And I had been doing so well for a while there.
Time to try again...

Darian is interested in cooking. He enjoys cooking and eating. ;-) But mostly cooking. He'd like to be a chef and is looking into how to make that a reality.

In our effort to 'help', we've arranged for Darian to choose a menu, write a shopping list, plan a schedule, and cook the meal once a week. Although I have some cookbooks, Darian prefers searching through the ones he's been given by friends and family or those he's collected from places we've visited (like the White House and Graceland).

His first attempt was a huge success!!

He made lasagna and Mexican corn. They were both mouthwateringly delicious!

We all enjoyed his creations! :-)

Brenna eating like a girl.

just look at those delicate fingers

D enjoying the 'fruit' of his hard work!

(and notice that he attempted to clean up the kitchen as he went... not too bad)

Flashback Friday - Memphis Fun

2010-08-06T09:44:00.000-04:00

A warm August day in 2007

Visiting Mud Island in Memphis

Good memories, and great times!

Fun on the tram ride over to the island.

A sweet cousin with the Memphis Pyramid in the background.

The kids at some of the tributaries before the river begins.

gotta love the "quick-I'm-getting-wet" faces. :-)

A quick trip out west. ;-)

Always time for a little visit 'home'.

Racing shoes down the river.

Nanni's being careful heading out of 'Memphis'.

Cooling down...

and getting wet.

Taking a moment to dry off.

Wordless Wednesday - Stacking Cousins

2010-08-04T07:58:00.001-04:00

Pain...

2010-08-03T05:23:00.000-04:00

Pain is often the beginning of a journey.

I don't know how often it starts us moving, but I think it's a major cause. To me, there are two responses to pain: sit in it, or move on.

I have sat in pain.

It doesn't change the pain. It acknowledges it; it experiences its depth and edges; sitting in it can even allow me to learn from it. The pain may lesson with time, but it remains, a place of tenderness, or perhaps a scar.

I have also been pushed by pain. When the sitting in it just doesn't work. Maybe there's too much pain to handle, or perhaps, it's a pain that's paralyzing. Sometimes, I think, one pain can lead to another, they can feed from each other or avalanche into one another. I can't sit in these pains.

It's too much. I must move.

I think it's easy to sit where we're comfortable. There's no reason to move when surrounded by comfort, little motivation to change or adjust. I've felt this too. I tell myself I'm growing or changing, beginning a new direction, but I like the steadiness of what I've known.

I don't think pain is like that. Pain demands a reaction. We can choose to sit, but that is a choice.

Pain moves us. It shapes us.

I'm not sure I like that.
But I guess I don't have to, eh?

Netball

2010-07-31T09:01:00.000-04:00

An American playing netball is kinda like...

well, I don't know what it's like... think of something that's a bit out-of-place and slightly awkward and that's what it'd be like.

If an American is going to play a game that involves a court, two teams, a round ball that can bounce, a rim (aka, 'raised goal'), and passing and shooting, that game will be BASKETBALL. And to come clean,

I am not even a mediocre basketball player.

I coached a bit, but only because I was a parent and made my sister help. (and even then, there were some very frightening, uneducated coaching moments... but that's a different story)

Netball is one sport that isn't big in the states. I don't think it's there at all. I hear some Netball Ambassadors went over to spread the sport... but I've never heard what the outcome was.

But, it's HUGE here!

It's mainly a girls' sport, although there are co-ed teams. One funny rule is that when you play, you have to wear a skirt. (just the girls, silly) It's kinda like a tennis skirt. If you don't have yours, you can't get on the court. (I learned that today... had trackies on and that just didn't work)

It's a fabulous and fun game! I play alongside some very patient and amazing women who are willing to put up with my mistakes and teach me as we go.

They've accepted me where I'm at,

and are helping to move me forward in the game.

What a treasure.

I am by no means good, but I try and have fun. :-) Have a look...

This is before the game... I look confused, that's normal ;-)

The player with the ball is actually 'trimming' a nail.

The refs check fingernails before the game to make sure they're not too long.

Safety first.

(and we're stretching... that's important too)

Just a look at the court (sorta) and the different outfits.

In the back, the other team is wearing bodysuit type skirts.

We're not that official... I like our uniforms heaps.

Oh, and on the left, on player is practicing shooting.

Only certain players can shoot, depending on your position.

I am not one of those players!

(I can barely make a basket when there's a backboard helping)

Certain players are allowed in certain parts of the court.

The position I'm playing here (Wing Defense.. my only position) isn't allowed in the circle.

So, I stopped. (sometimes I forget)

This is a common occurrence...

I'm standing beside an opposing player because I've been called on a 'foul'.

(not sure if that's really what it's called)

You can't touch or run into the other players...

But they stop too fast, so I get 'pulled up' often.

An action shot!

I'm trying to make sure the player in front of me doesn't get the ball.

And I'm really concentrating!

Hope you enjoyed this little netball journey with me.

Flashback Friday - Sibling Sweetness

2010-07-30T20:38:00.000-04:00

It's hard to believe they were ever so little!

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Ball pit fun when D was 5 years and B was 19 months.

A day when we met Nanni for lunch and fun somewhere in Michigan.

A different view...

2010-07-28T22:04:00.001-04:00

Recently I chatted w/ some folks about Jesus' parable of the Good Samaritan. You know the one? The guy gets beat up and robbed while journeying some where and left for dead. When the religious men pass by, they choose to keep walking, leaving him in his pain and trouble. Then, when a man who's looked down upon and seen as unworthy passes by, he chooses to stop. He chooses to show love and care for the man.

I've often read this story and heard lessons about it that focus on encouraging us to be the one who shows love, the person who will take time and effort to care. And that's

very true and valid.

We need to see those hurting, those in need as our 'neighbor' and love them as ourselves. (which is quite a big lesson and pretty hard to do, especially if they're different from us)

But, I started thinking about the often overlooked character in this story, the beaten man. We don't know much about him except that he was a man walking down the road from Jerusalem to Jericho. Those would have both been Israelite cities. Could the speculate that he was an Israelite too? And if so,

what would he feel

when he watched his "brothers", those who should love him, walk by as if he was too unimportant to notice? What feelings would he have for those men after he healed physically? For the men who represent his God and who didn't seem to care at all for his pain?

And then, what feelings would he have for the man who did stop and help him heal? A man who the religious people saw as an outcast, as unworthy, as unacceptable. Yet, a man who was able to show love through his actions. How would the hurt man see him now?

I feel like the beaten man, struggling and in pain, stopped in my journey. I have watched as some who claim to be my "brothers" pass by unconcerned, show in their actions they want nothing to do with me. I have also experienced those who others consider "unclean" or "unacceptable" stop, take time, show me love and invest to help heal my wounds. I know my view of these groups has altered; I wonder if it was the same for the man in the story.

Wordless Wednesday - Kids & Kebabs

2010-07-28T08:29:00.000-04:00

He says it well...

2010-07-27T23:21:00.000-04:00

I read a bunch of blogs. I like hearing peoples' thoughts and perspectives. I enjoying using their thoughts to refine my own.

I find blogs to read through people I know and often end up reading blogs of people who just have interesting things to share.

One blog I like is written by a missionary in Costa Rica. I don't know him. I don't even know which tradition he belongs to. I do know that what he writes is reflective and honest. It reads as though he's not afraid to be himself, warts and all. He thinks and makes me think. I don't have to agree with all he says, but thinking is good.

I've had some thoughts about 'chruch-y' things and how they can be off-putting. I don't have the words to share what he does so well.

So, if you're interested in thinking a bit today, and maybe even reflecting a bit on yourself, have a look...
"I'm Not a Role Model"

Driving Differently

2010-07-27T17:37:00.001-04:00

After our quick trip to the States and returning back in Oz, I noticed a difference in the way we drive. (no silly, i've known for a while that Aussies drive on the left side of the road... shesh. ;-) )

When I drive in the US, I use the "emergency brake" when I park on hills, just to make sure the car doesn't roll anywhere after I've parked it. (who knows, it could go for a joy ride w/out me and what fun would that be??)

However, whenever we stop to park anywhere here, we use that same break. No matter where I park... on a hill, in a parking garage, or in a driveway (sometimes those are really inclined!). Perhaps that's why it's called the "hand brake" here. It's used more often than just for 'emergencies'.

I don't know why I'll pull the break here as soon as I park, but I've never done it in the states. Kinda odd.

(oh, and to give full credit, it was first the wonderful hubby who noticed this unusual phenomena. pretty perceptive.)

The Brenna Show

2010-07-26T08:32:00.000-04:00

I am so impressed by what the little girl has been up to recently. She has found somethings that she enjoys and has fully committed herself to them. It's both inspiring and tiring to watch. :-)

She's discovered a passion and love for performing and has immersed herself in that. She's part of an African drumming group as well as a dance troupe at school. She's also earned a solo spot in a song performance for her music class and is involved in a public speaking club. And that's just the activities she's doing in school. (Can ya understand about the tiring aspect?? I am, she's not)

In a couple weeks her school is celebrating Education Week where they'll take a day and share some of the activities that are being done at Mt. Brown Primary.

When a teacher asked B what she'd be doing for the day, she rattled off her list of performances. The teacher replied, "Maybe we should call it the 'Brenna Show'." That made her smile. It's great to see her getting involved and enjoying her Year 6 so much.

Quick Review of a Speedy Trip

2010-07-19T22:13:00.000-04:00

We enjoyed a quick trip back to the states for my little sister's wedding. :-) We hadn't planned on making it back, but just couldn't miss being there to support and celebrate. And I can't say how very thankful I am that we made the trip. :-)

Here are a few highlights of our whirlwind trip...

Getting to know a new cousin

...it didn't take long

Mr and Mrs Morgan

:-)

My little sis and me

Enjoying some family fun after the wedding.

Visiting with Dad after his heart surgery and the wedding.

He's looking pretty good here and doing great now.

Mr and Mrs Morgan bonding with the nieces and nephew.

Don't they look so happy together! ;-)

We enjoyed a visit with Grandma Grace

on the beginning of our road trip south.

Thankful for the flexibility of friends, we stopped for

a late lunch with some ones just outside Cinci.

Chatting with some of the Carpe Libris (book club) girls

at a lovely dinner. Thanks to all who came and cooked!

Our gracious Jackson hosts opened up their home

for a Memphis invasion. :-)

Wish I had room for pics of everyone.

Saturday night, we spent time at Pringles Park

to cheer on the local team in America's pastime.

The boys are sporting their 'rally caps' in the last inning.

After the game... one week married! :-)

We got to see some fireworks here too!

Thanks to my fabulous cousin who welcomed us for dinner

(oh-so-yummy grilled chicken and brats!) on our journey north.

The kids loved visiting w/ their cousins and having time out of the car!

We saw more fireworks as we drove north on the 4th.

The big rush north was to celebrate D's 16th birthday with family!

It was a fabulous gathering of family and fun

on a very warm PA day!

Can't spend time at Nunu and Pappy's without

hanging out in the pool.

It was nice to visit summer for a few weeks during our winter.

A day at Pittsburgh's own amusement park...

Kennywood!

Thanks, Griffiths. We all had a BLAST!

Dinner with three generations.

Ah, hoagies.

Summertime's complete with a tasty s'more!

Mmm...

and some lovingly made Mountain Pies!

Back in MI again.
Enjoyed lunch at Big Boy's with my family
just before walking into the airport to head home. :-)

It was a whirlwind trip, but I was so blessed to be able to share in the joy of my sister's wedding and see so many friends and family who took time out of their busy schedules to visit us on a this trip. Thanks.

(disclaimer: Please forgive any missing important events or people. While I'd love to be able to have everyone we saw in this post, it would make the post crazy long. I appreciate and love each of you who came to see us and even those we didn't get a chance to see. Hopefully next time)

One Week Old!

2010-07-05T16:10:00.000-04:00

(plus a couple days)

Giant CONGRATS!!! to Janie and Robert on a beautiful wedding and the beginning of a new journey together. :-)

I was lucky enough to see them on their one week anniversary and take a couple pics. But they're not loaded to the computer yet. (traveling's been fully loaded) Hope to share those soon, too.

Flashback Friday - A wedding re-visited

2010-06-18T08:55:00.000-04:00

My baby sister is getting married in 8 days!

It brings a lot of forward, hopeful thinking. But for me, it also sends me reminiscing. And today I went back to my big brother's wedding. :-) and giant smiles and happy memories. Here's some pics so you can flashback with me...

Cousins before the excitement begins.

They are too sweet for words.

Big brother and new sister enjoying the cake!

Love these two!

My most wonderful hubby and I.

So blessed to have this man!

The cousins having fun w/ Uncle Bryan!

(or 'Dad' for Rayne)

What a great sport to have confetti sprinkled on his head.

There's always time to stop for a good meal. ;-)

Getting a little snuggle time in...

don't think Janie will be holding B at her wedding.

Happy 9 Years and counting, Bry and MLE!

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I Got Your Back

2010-06-17T18:55:00.000-04:00

I recently watched "The Blind Side" with a group of Aussie gals. We enjoyed dinner, stories, laughs and the movie together. It was an evening of friendships, both long lasting and newly beginning.

The movie paralleled that on a very deep level. While the relationships in the movie begin with kindness and the hand of friendship, they develop into something exponentially more. So much more, that it's both beautiful and humbling.

"I got your back." That statement was used powerfully in the movie. And it speaks volumes. The steadfastness, the trust, the love, the acceptance, the true dedication and devotion that accompany that commitment. very powerful.

Like any words, they can be easily spoken without meaning and honesty. But to truly mean those words, to fully show the support they imply, to willingly stand beside a friend in the hard moments, is surely both special and rare.

If someone's got your back, you are a truly lucky person.

.

A Little Something

2010-06-16T23:07:00.001-04:00

Most afternoons, when I'm walking Brenna home from school, she asks the same question as we step onto our front lawn. She asks, "Did I get a package today?"

After a several rounds of this, I grew concerned. I asked her if she was expecting something. "No, just being hopeful," she cheerfully replied. So each afternoon, we play this game. She asks, and I say 'nope.' But she doesn't stop asking.

About a week ago, I gave her a different answer.

Sitting on the table when she got in, was a small envelope. To me, it didn't seem like much, but I couldn't have been more wrong. She saw it and exclaimed, "A package!" She excitedly took the note card sized envelope and snuggled into an armchair with a smile on her face. Inside was a small paper with only a few sentences from a former Bible class teacher. To Brenna, it was a beautiful, day-brightening, larger than imaginable package.

It likely took less than five minutes to write that note and less than a dollar to post it, but the joy and treasure that it brought far surpass any measure.

Thank you, Mr. Mike, for taking the time to write and send that note. It was (and still is) cherished by my precious little girl. And, by me. It may have just looked like something little to me, but it's impact was much bigger.

May I follow through on my 'little somethings' for whatever impact they may make.
... also, may I hold to hope as easily and as lightly as my little girl.

Wordless Wednesday - Not-so-central Heat

2010-06-16T08:51:00.000-04:00

Flashback Friday - Janie Jo

2010-06-11T10:51:00.001-04:00

They say time flies when you're having fun... and in this case I'll have to believe it! Today's flashback is dedicated to my wonderful little sister... who surely can't be getting married... in just over TWO WEEKS! So excited for her as she's about to begin a new journey. But before that happens, let's look back...

Jane as She-Ra in the school Halloween parade

kindergarten

Posing for a photo shoot

(she tolerated so very much from her big sis)

about 7 years old

Riding buddies, (other sis, Jill)

all decked out in equestrian gear and ready to show

I'd have to guess... sometime near middle school

Summertime fun!
Hangin' with the nieces and nephew
just three years ago!

Love you, sweet sis!

Wordless Wednesday - D's creation

2010-06-09T08:56:00.000-04:00

:-)

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Tuesday's Tangent - animals

2010-06-08T08:49:00.000-04:00

I was talking with a friend recently, and we discovered some similarities between people and animals. Actually, it was specific people with specific animals. I know, not your normal conversation, but sometimes these things just happen... it was a "you had to be there" moment, I guess.

So, in the spirit of fun I'll share mine with you. (that's what you were hoping, wasn't it?) If I were an animal, I'd likely be a lizard. You see, I have issues with maintaining my own body temperature (and it's better than a snake, they're scary).

Any brave readers out there willing to ponder this silly though and share what animal you might resemble? or have traits of? hmm...

;-)

Good times in Gosford

2010-06-07T10:15:00.003-04:00

This weekend the family took a trip up to Gosford to meet with the elders of the church there and enjoy some fellowship and fun with some of our church family there. We had a good discussion that lead to some introspection (I think that's the right word...) and ponderings, as well and clarifications. I don't have any pics from then, but I do have some shots of the the fun parts the rest of Saturday.

The men chatting. :-)

Two Davids and a Shawn.

After a super scrumptious lunch,

Chris is topping a homemade pavlova to share!

A true Aussie delight.

The picture doesn't show the yumminess of this tasty treat!

And I experienced fresh passionfruit for the first time, too.

Laura shared her favourite cookbook with Brenna and Joy.

She's made some fantastic food from it, or so they say. ;-)

Still serving up some goodness, as the troops start to circle.

(nah, there was no circling, just chatting)

The Gosford HIM (not sure if that's the write acronym) workers, Ann and Jenny,

along with Brenna, Shawn, and all-around great guy, Dan

at... a hockey game! (surprising, I know!)

(if you look closely, you can see Darian, but he's hiding)

Gettin' some hockey on!

It was fun to cheer and stomp and make noise!

(don't tell, but I started cheering for the other side...

they were the underdog, final score 12-2)

Dan helping with some personal hygiene.

Okay, that's not true, he's just being silly.

This pic's here, just to prove I was at the game...

but it was a little fuzzy cuz the flash was off. Better next time, eh?

Finally caught Darian in a picture...

...sadly, he's trying to help Dan clean up. Sorry, Dan.

B's got the cat's cradle masking her face... or it could be 'owl's eyes'... hmm...

Thanks for the evening, Dan! It was great fun!

I wish there was a non-interruptive and non-distracting way of taking pics of worship time, but I haven't figured that out yet, so there's no pics of Sunday morning with the Gosford family. It was lovingly lead by Dan, and I appreciate the thought and heart he puts into it.

Flashback Friday - That's me...

2010-06-04T10:02:00.001-04:00

about four years old

and I'd guess my talented Mom made that outfit. ;-)

I remember thinking that was the coolest carpet ever!
good fun!
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Wordless Wednesday - outlook

2010-06-02T08:45:00.000-04:00

Keeping in Touch

2010-06-01T21:10:00.000-04:00

Being far away from family and friends, we sent out email newsletters of recent happenings with our work and family news. It's just another way of keeping up with the Griffith family down under.

If you're not on our email list and would like to be, just follow the link below and sign up. If you get tired of hearing from us, it's just one click to remove yourself.

Yep, I'm interested in email news... click here.

Leave a comment if you have any questions or concerns.
or just to share an update of what's going on with you! :o)

Tuesday's Tangent - ideas

2010-06-01T09:33:00.000-04:00

I have such great ideas. Really, I do... well, once in a while I do. But sadly, these often flash into my head without warning and float off again before I can get them written down somewhere. :-/ I'm sure that sounds a bit like a 'fish-that-got-away' story to you, but it does happen.

I wonder if sometimes my actions are like that. I guess they would be more like intentions. I have a thought, a wanting to do something. I agree with myself that it's a good plan, and yet, sometimes my follow-through just isn't there. I think that's something I need to work on... on doing the little things that just might make a big (or even little) difference for someone else. I'm gunna chew on that one for a while... and hopefully move on it too. (not sure you wanted to join in my journey with that much detail... but you got it!)

Another idea that's floated around in my head recently is the beauty of mistakes. I witnessed part of something that encouraged me and was a blessing. However, for the ones who were in charge of the event, they were disappointed by the hiccups that occurred... which was part of the beauty and blessing for me. God's neat that way, he can use our 'oops-es' to bless others. Good stuff.

Happy tangent day!
Hope you find a few to brighten your day.

Heaps!

2010-05-30T08:57:00.001-04:00

If you want to describe something to communicate that it's a lot or 'tons', then in Australia (or at least where we are), you'd often hear someone say "heaps".

So, as of 10 days after surgery, I'm feeling 'heaps' better! ;-)
I feel better now than I have in months. I guess I didn't realize how not-so-good I was feeling. But, now I've got energy and no pain. Good times. I'm heaps thankful for doctors who ran tests and sent me to others who could help. I'm grateful that I was in such good care and now fully on the mend. The blood issues should resolve themselves now, but I'll get that tested again in another month or so.

Thanks to all who called, sent flowers, prayed or sent emails. It was nice to have you along for the journey. It was nice to be reminded at times that although I'm far away from 'home' and so many friends, I'm not alone. Thank you, heaps!

blessings and peace.
(next week, I should be able to return to the new adventures that I'd recently started! woohoo!)

Wordless Wednesday - :o) Being together

2010-05-26T08:42:00.000-04:00

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Healing

2010-05-25T08:41:00.000-04:00

It's interesting how healing goes. It begins with sore areas that can consume all your focus. Then gradually, the hurt begins it's healing and the pain fades. There are moments when everything feels good, back to normal or even better. But, watch out, a wrong twist or move and the aches quickly return as it becomes clear that you're not as healed as you suspected.

I've had some great days of healing recently. Today though, I had a couple bad twists and might just feel more sore than I have since getting home.

Good thing, there's a big rest ahead and tomorrow's a new day.

Blessings,
and happy healing for any of your hurts.

First Food

2010-05-23T07:50:00.001-04:00

I have to say that I have been spoiled in my health. Until recently, my body worked just like it was suppose to without any thought or concern my me. Yeah, I would eat mostly well and avoid the 'bad' stuff that works against your body (well, except for Coke). I am blessed by my overall heath.

But to prepare for my procedure, I had to have two days of liquid diet then fast the day of the surgery. By the time I went in (6pm) it had been nearly 72 hours without chewing. Food was on the forefront of my mind. Anything triggered thoughts of food. It was almost humorous. I threatened to stand on the bed and lick the tv the next time a food commercial came on. (the amount of food and food shows on tv then is cruel)

So after the long wait, here's my first meal at the hospital...

The menu was... poach salmon, steamed veggies,

broccoli soup and a caramel custard.

I have to say that as a first meal with solid foods, it was pretty nice. :-) And I couldn't finish it all. It beat most of the food that I was fantasizing about.

Unexpected Adventure

2010-05-22T07:42:00.000-04:00

The last month has been a bit of a whirlwind. Some fun things have happened like learning to play netball, hearing Bren on the radio, and listening to the boys laugh at some videos (I mean really laugh!). There have been lots of changes and new paths for our family recently.

But I took one unexpected adventure. I have always been a very healthy, 'normal' person. But the past month, my body opted for a different path and I ended up needing surgery.

I'm home and healing now. A little sore and a bit more like swiss cheese than I've ever been before. ;-) But the problems are solved and won't be getting worse, so all is well. But I'll share some bits of my adventure....

Waiting for my turn... feeling at peace and enjoying time w/ Shawn.

I know the peace was due to all the prayers.

Thank you, dear friends.

I got some stylin' stockings and slippers at my visit. ;-)

not to mention the bracelets and robe to borrow.

Feeling happy, but very cold, after the procedure.

And apparently, I asked Shawn what time it was repetitively.

I lost three hours... very odd... even now.

Up and getting visitors the day after.

Thanks for the flowers, Mark and Dana!

They brightened my room and my spirits.

Thanks also, Shawn and Mel, for helping with the kids and dinner!

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Friday Flashback - Checking out Dad's old stomping grounds - June '04

2010-05-21T07:34:00.000-04:00

Wandering through the wilderness with Dad.

Looking over the river.

Off again to explore...

Watching the river flow.

Throwing rocks into the river.

Thankful Thursday - prayer

2010-05-20T06:21:00.001-04:00

Sometimes it's just nice to know that I can share my joys and burdens with the Creator. And sometimes, there is amazing comfort and peace in knowing that I am being brought before the Father by fellow believers.

I am thankful that among the countless wonders of this world, I have a pathway to approach my Mighty God. It's truly awesome and humbling. Also, comforting and heartwarming...

Peace and love to you today.

Wordless Wednesday - Stanwell Tops

2010-05-19T09:21:00.000-04:00

Radio Star

2010-05-16T09:55:00.001-04:00

A local radio station came to broadcast from Brenna's school last Friday. It was great excitement for all the students. They served breakfast, had a firetruck, and there were prizes! There was a competition to determine which students were able to participate (karaoke or speaking) in the morning show. Brenna was one of the lucky few chosen to speak.

I didn't know if I'd be able to hear her. I had the radio on online, but had to head out that morning and wouldn't be able to listen to the whole show.

After a song and some ads, the hosts began speaking again. I heard them chat very briefly to one of B's friends. (and my heart sank a little bit). Then they told the next student to say hello. And then this sweet, but slightly odd, little voice said, "Hi." (and my heart soared!) That voice sounded odd because it didn't quite fit with all the Aussie accents; it had an American twang. WooHoo! It was Brenna!

They chatted with her for a little bit about where she was from and how she liked Australia. It was so fun hearing my daughter on the radio. She sounded great! Not a bit nervous at all. What a fun Australian memory!

I am so proud of both of my kids for the way the enjoy and experience life. What a great example they are to me.

Flashback Friday - Back to babies...

2010-05-14T08:23:00.001-04:00

Darian with Great Grandma Griffith (aka- Maw)

December 1994, 5 months old

Brenna with Great Grandpap Griffith (aka- Pap)

July 1998, 5 months old

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Thankful Thursday - hands

2010-05-13T08:20:00.003-04:00

This week I've thought a bit about hands. They do a lot for me. I wouldn't be typing this without my hands and the fingers that belong on them. (I know there are ways to overcome this, but work with me...) I'm thankful for the countless things my hands do for me everyday.

But hands are useful beyond doing. Hands also communicate for us. I found myself considering the importance of having a hand to hold. Simply being able to hold a friend's hand can mean so much. It can brighten a day or ease a burden. Hands share life.

I looked through some pics and found these special hand moments...

a promise

cherishing new beginnings

slowing down for little moments

the love of siblings

taking time to play

greeting a new friend

rest and peace

just hanging on

comfort and contentment

lifting up in joy

fifty years and counting

I hope today, you can find a hand to hold, to give you comfort or encouragement, to share a joy or some strength. Or, perhaps, you can offer that hand of peace and love to someone else instead.
Blessings.

Wordless Wednesday - Darian

2010-05-12T07:51:00.001-04:00

Tuesday's Tangent - Aussie TV

2010-05-11T07:39:00.001-04:00

Australia has great free-to-air tv. (aka- non-cable). A lot of shows that are on cable in the US we can see here on free-to-air. (sadly, it's not always the best of American tv, but that's a different thought)

What really entertains me is the scheduling. You know, you look in the tv guide... the free one in the paper or even the one on the tellie itself (yay for technology)... and see what show is on at which time. This helps in the all important chore of figuring out when dinner really needs to be finished by (heehee, not really, I'm just havin' fun).

Here's the fun part... tv shows here don't always start on time! It might say that the show starts at 7:30... but it could actually start 20 minutes later, or 14. crazy! And, I've seen shows finish 15 minutes early. I don't understand why it happens, or how it all works out in the end. But, it's true!

A bit of Aussie info ya just didn't know before, did ya?
and truly, a tangent from anything relevant... but still a bit fun.
;-)

A Truly Happy Mother's Day!

2010-05-09T09:00:00.001-04:00

What a special day thanks to my kids and hubby! I was spoiled, pampered, and loved. :-)

The kids prepared breakfast in bed... and are so very good at know their mom! Check out my treats...

And did you notice... it wasn't just breakfast, I got a movie too. And there's no pics, but I got some good snuggles (priceless) as well as some beautiful cards and fuzzy socks. yay for me. (and there's so much beauty and special-ness in them working together to begin my day)

For lunch, we all enjoyed the beautiful day and headed down to the harbour. I'm very thankful for some friends who invited us to join their family celebrations (with mum, dad, and sister's family, too)! But we opted to just have a bit of family time. It was a slice of heaven.

Shawn and Darian waiting in line to order lunch...

guess we shared the idea with a few locals ;-)

enjoying the harbour while waiting for our lunch

Some other folks enjoying the afternoon.

Yay! Lunch is here.

Enjoying a meal out with the family... bliss.

Many blessings and much thanks to all the mothers who have touched my life. May God shine his love and peace upon you today and in the days ahead.

What a Year!

2010-05-07T08:01:00.003-04:00

The 7th of May marked a year that our family has been in Australia. Throughout this journey, long before our arrival here, God has directed our path in unexpected and sometimes surprising ways. We put our faith in Him then, choosing to trust in his steadfastness, content in where he leads, and striving to become who He's created us to be wherever we are.

It's been a remarkable year, full of highs and lows just as each year is. Through it all, we've been blessed. Thank you to those of you who have prayed for us, encouraged us, and walked along side us during this past year. You are a treasure to our family.

Here's some of the highlights...

meeting new friends, and reacquainting with former ones...

Darian checks out the medical system...

(thank you for the prayers and emails!)

Trying new things...

Blessed by new schools and new friends there...

A first connection w/ the Cancer Council at Relay for Life...

Exploring our community...

Special visitors...

Enjoying time together...

And much more...
(but I think I should stop somewhere!)

Thankful Thursday - uhh...

2010-05-06T08:57:00.000-04:00

Well, I'm thankful today, but I'm not sure what I'm really thankful about. Well, not specifically that is.

So, I'm open to suggestions. ;-)
What little or often forgotten something are you thankful for today?
Please share. :-)

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Wordless Wednesday: tonight = drums + frito pie

2010-05-05T08:59:00.000-04:00

Tuesday's Tangent - bagpipes

2010-05-04T08:28:00.004-04:00

I love bagpipes!
I always have. The first time I remember hearing them (on a street corner in Windsor, Ont in high school), I was enthralled. I stopped to listen. The friends I was with were not as impressed.

I was recently chatting with a friend and realized that I'm a bit like bagpipes. :-)
I like it.
(and I'll let you, my two readers, make any appropriate comparisons you like.)

enjoying some bagpipes in Jackson, 2008. :-)

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Caught in Photos...

2010-05-01T09:05:00.000-04:00

A pic from my first netball game.

I'm hoping to get some good action shots...

(oh, and I had to wear the gloves, 'cuz my nails were too long)

Getting started on B's electricity project

a little guidance from Dad. :-)

The final product was a solar powered book lamp!

We love Skype!

A quick chat w/ Nanni and Aunt Jane.

It's great to be able to see the faces of friends and family as we talk!

My sweet and handsome boys...

(yes, this was a group pic, self-photo... but I forgot to take the zoom off)

Enjoying a treat on the trip to Sydney to renew passports.

At Circular Quay...

... sun-safe with her hat and shades. 'good on ya!

Climbing the rocks at Kellys Falls

and venturing out to new heights...

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Friday Flashback - Family 2006

2010-04-30T07:17:00.000-04:00

Gathered together after a long 'Grandparent Tour'

one sun-filled, fun-filled summer.

So blessed to have great kids and wonderful parents (both sets)

who make priceless summer memories together.

:-D

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Thankful Thursday - heart

2010-04-29T08:23:00.000-04:00

I am not a rhythmic person. I can hear a basic beat, but I cannot keep a beat for a sustained time. And, please, don't even try to think that I could keep a steady beat AND do anything else! (maybe even breath)... really, that's a complex task, right?? ;-)

So, in light of these difficulties for me, I am very thankful that my heart does not need my assistance to beat. My heart was created to keep it's own rhythm, it's own steady time. I am thankful and praise God for that amazing occurrence! ...because, if it was up to me, my poor little heart wouldn't have lasted long.

Sometimes, it's the little things that I'm really thankful for. ;-)
blessings.

Wordless Wednesday - family shot

2010-04-28T07:57:00.001-04:00

Tuesday's Tangent - bats

2010-04-27T09:08:00.000-04:00

I've never been a big fan of bats, the flying kind, that is. (I'm not greatly fond of the other type of bats as they require hand-eye coordination of which i have very little... but that's another post). I've always thought the flying bats were kind of creepy. And anything that moves quickly can make me squirmish.

But, last week, when we went to Sydney to apply for new passports for D and B, I saw heaps of bats flying from the Botanical Gardens over the Opera House and into the harbour. VERY COOL!

Bats are stunning to watch. They're incredibly graceful and quite unique. When they fly in front of lights, their wings are translucent. Crazy! I could have stood and watched them fly overhead for hours. Who knew!

Silly me, I should have been appreciating them for what they were created to be, not comparing them to other things and judging them for what they were not. hmm...
;-)

The Harbour Bridge at dusk.

If you look closely, you should be able to see tiny black

dots in the upper left corner... those are bats! :-)

Thankful Thursday - chocolate

2010-04-22T07:15:00.000-04:00

... 'cuz some days just call for chocolate. ;-)

Some days are chocolate - straight up. Other days require chocolate with peanut butter or maybe mint. Once in a while, the day needs chocolate with a bit of crunch. But there are days, that are best treated with chocolate.

:-)
and so, I'm thankful for the delicious creation!
and the many, many varieties.
and the family and friends who share the love. ;-)

Wordless Wednesday - Pasta Marinara

2010-04-21T09:05:00.000-04:00

Tuesday's Tangent - ice

2010-04-20T09:34:00.000-04:00

Ice machines and ice buckets are not as easily found in Aussie hotels.

Just thought y'all might want to know that.

;-)

Friday Flashback - Fall 2005

2010-04-16T07:23:00.001-04:00

A special visit from Aunt Karen, Kristen, Jamie and Ben.

They came to visit us in Memphis, and we had a great time!

Obviously, this is a bedtime story, Thanks, Aunt Karen.
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Thankful Thursday - flowing water

2010-04-15T19:55:00.000-04:00

Sounds silly, I know. But these 'thankfuls' are for the little things, or maybe the overlooked things... and they're for me, and I do like a bit of silly now and again. :-)

Last week, we had busy day of meetings and events. Brenna was invited to go shopping with a friend in Sydney. :-) Good fun! One meeting took us a bit more north than we normally venture. And, since it gave me some free time, I went exploring and rediscovered some streams and waterfalls.

I love the sound of flowing water. The way it moves, trickles and rushes is peaceful and calming to me. I could sit and listen to the sounds for hours.

I'm thankful that God created not only beautiful sights, but also some wonderful sounds. Sounds of creation that bring peace and joy.

a slow trickle...

a fiercer rush

Me and my exploring buddy for the day. :-)

Wish I had sound to go w/ the pics... but that just didn't happen. :-)

Wordless Wednesday - Brenna's Purchase...

2010-04-14T09:02:00.000-04:00

Lessons from the garden... tomatoes

2010-04-12T08:52:00.002-04:00

We started a winter garden last year. Well, okay, Shawn started the garden, but I did take some pics! heehee. It gave us some fantastic veggies... snow peas, lettuce, purple beans, carrots, silver beet, beetroot, to name a few (the ones I remember). Then Shawn replanted for summer and we had some delicious tomatoes and capsicum (aka green peppers).

At first we were very good at keeping it watered and weeded. I visited it every morning to give it a pep-talk and watch the baby lizards scurry away at my foot steps. But after a while other things got in the way.
(and that's a totally different point...)

If you were to look at our garden this week, you'd actually ask... "What garden?!?" It's quite overrun and jungle-like. It doesn't resemble much of what it was created for. There's grass and weeds overtaking the area.

But here's the beautiful thing... I went out the other day and discovered some tomatoes growing. Even amidst the neglect and garden sadness, there was something able to grow and fulfill it's purpose. Some plants produced a bowlful of fruit. :-) Plump and round and red.

I like that. It gives me hope.
Sometimes life gets messy, or isn't orderly the way we'd anticipated. But, in the middle of that, something can still grow and thrive.

Thanks, tomatoes.

Brown Eggs -2

2010-04-11T05:55:00.001-04:00

A little bit of funny...

A couple days before Griffith Family Day, we were invited to dinner at a friend's house. :-) Good fun! We joined the Tylers and some of their neighbors for some pizza making, mmmm....

While we were chatting in the kitchen, I mentioned my plight (only brown eggs) to the other ladies. One of them looked a bit pondering, then agreed that Aussie eggs are cream-colored, but was sure they could easily be dyed. So we chatted a bit then took out some eggs. After sharing with her that eggs in the States are white like the bowl on the counter, she was surprised at how dark the local eggs were. She hadn't understood what I was whinge-ing about until then.

It's nothing big, or surprising, but it so made me smile! :-)
I like those moments.

Brown Eggs

2010-04-10T08:02:00.000-04:00

This was our first Easter in Oz. It was full of new experiences. Traditionally, the week before Easter, our family celebrates "Griffith Family Day"- a day about and dedicated to our family. There's not much that's "must-do" that day, but there are a couple things.

It's the one day of the year where the family joins together and eats cookie dough. ;-) (yeah, i know, it could be hazardous to our health... we survived this year... it's all good)

It's also the day we dye Easter eggs. That's always a day we enjoy. There's a lot of creativity and heart that goes into making just the right eggs. And we often have a bonus guest or two adding to the decorating fun! :-) I have many GRAND memories of sitting/standing around a table transforming eggs into bright and colorful gems!

This year we discovered a technical difficulty. Australia sells brown eggs not white. I haven't seen one white egg since I've been here. And, I haven't noticed it till now... when I wanted to make some yellow, orange and pink eggs.

So, we pondered what to do, and thanks to friends on Facebook, had several suggestions, too. So, we boiled our eggs, and colored them... with Brenna's school crayons! :-) They weren't as bright, but they were still fun to do together.

The finished product...

minus the ones that we'd eaten by the time I remembered to take a pic.

The kids and I coloring eggs... truly!

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Friday Flashback - B & Aunt Katie '05

2010-04-09T09:26:00.000-04:00

Aunt Katie and Brenna

sharing some love.

Christmas visit to Pennsylvania.

Brenna's developed several wonderful traits

from both of her aunts.

:-)

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Thankful Thursday - kids

2010-04-08T09:38:00.000-04:00

And believe it or not, not just my kids...
Kids make me smile... whether we're hanging out w/ friends who have them or I'm wandering the shops... kids and the things they do make me smile! deep from the inside smiles.

Yesterday while I was in the shops with Darian, a mum was pushing her girls (about 3 years old, twins, in princess dresses) in a shopping trolley (aka - cart). One of the little girls was chatting away with mum. Sweet in itself. But then I heard what she said... She asked if it was February. Mum told her no. Then she asked if it was March. And mum explained that it wasn't March either, it was April. The little one quickly responded, "What happened to February and March?"

Priceless.

I'm not sure what mum said next... but shortly after that I heard her say comfortingly, "We'll see them again next year." Wonderful!

Kids, they make me smile.
So glad they're around... my own and others. :-) Yay.

a morning greeting at preschool :-)

Joy in small things.

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Wordless Wednesday - Twelve Apostles

2010-04-07T08:18:00.002-04:00

Tuesday's Tangent - Fall

2010-04-06T09:01:00.000-04:00

Actually, it's not fall here, the season's called Autumn.

It's beginning to change seasons. The evenings are cooler. It's nice to snuggle up to keep warm since the air is getting cool once the sun goes done. The days aren't so hot... really, I've worn a sweatshirt on several days recently, so it must be getting cold. ;-) (heehee... if you know me, you know that's not quite true..)

But it's all feeling a bit odd.... 'cuz my brain is thinking that if the temps are going down and Fall's comin', then there are certain things that go along with that. Like my mum's birthday, but that's not till October. And I'm craving some fresh apple cider... but I'm not sure I'll find any around here. And the leaves should change colors any day now... but the trees aren't the same... (and really, it's probably not that cool yet)

But this isn't fall... it's Autumn... and it's only April.
and it's all just a bit odd... for today.

(fall in TN)

Welcome Autumn!
;-)

Holiday fun...

2010-04-05T11:54:00.002-04:00

A couple weeks ago, Shawn and I were blessed by showing some Gosford friends around the Wollongong area during their holiday. (Here in Australia, 'holiday' is the term you'd use for a break from work... What Americans would call a 'vacation'.) I'm grateful they trusted us to show them around a bit and shared their time with us. Sometimes, it's easy for me to think of times like this as an interruption or a bother, but truly, this was a blessing to me.

Here's Shawn with Andrew and his mum, Ann

enjoying the view from Stanwell Tops.

Posing for a picture...

with other visitors and some hang-gliders in the background.

Taking some pics on the Grand Pacific Drive

well, part of it anyway. ;-)

The Drive out over the water...

and the stunningness of God's creation.

Friday Flashback - Early Family pic '95

2010-04-02T09:30:00.001-04:00

Shawn, Darian and I way back when...

seems like such a long time ago.

crazy!

Thankful Thursday - laughter

2010-04-01T08:09:00.001-04:00

Nothing brightens the day like laughing with a friend!
...or with the most wonderful hubby ever who's always nearby to share a laugh!

I don't think I've ever pondered how fabulous, utterly terrific laughter is. It livens and refreshes my spirit and attitude. As my sweet sister would say... It's good fun!

And I'm not only thankful for laughter, but for those family and friends who share in the laughter... who make me laugh and laugh with me. The world is a better place because of a little giggle now and again, because of a wee chuckle here and there.

Oh, and there's just so many types of laughter... that makes me smile too!
What kind of a laugh-er are you?

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Wordless Wednesday - chocolate choices...

2010-03-31T06:31:00.000-04:00

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Tuesday's Tangent - poetry

2010-03-30T07:47:00.002-04:00

One of my friends commented about poetry on her fb status. I'm pretty sure she was dealing w/ serious poetry... but I'd much prefer some fun stuff... like...

This from "Runny Babbit" a Billy Sook by Shel Silverstein

'Kugs and Hisses'
Runny said, "I'm lonesome,
I feel so glad and soomy.
I need some kugs and hisses --
Now, who's gunna give 'em to me?"

"I will," said Polly Dorkupine,
"'Cause you're cute as a rug in a bug."
Said Runny, "Well, I'll kake the tiss,
But never hind the mug."

Oh, the fun of children's poetry... or should I say, pildren's choetry. ;-)

Shel's always good for a smile!

Do you have a favourite children's poem? or poem from your childhood?
Wanna share?

A Bit of Pride...

2010-03-29T07:17:00.001-04:00

One of the activities that Brenna chose to participate in to help adjust to the culture and find some friends was Surf Life Saving Club. It's a club (Aussies are all about clubs) for kids that meets weekly and teaches kids about surf safety (tides, rips, wave survival, being safe in the water).

It was a bit overwhelming at first. Brenna was in the "Under 12s" group. They start with an "Under 5s", so kids in her group could have been participating in SLSC for 7 years. Though it's mixed with heaps of fun, there's some skills to learn as well from swimming distances in surf (waves) to using a 'nipper board' (like a life saving board but smaller for smaller kids). Despite the newness of it all, Brenna was always willing to "give it a go". And we were blessed by John, the amazing Age Manager for Brenna's group. He was always so encouraging and willing to explain things that might be new to the 'Yank'. And, he always made sure Brenna was safe and comfortable.

Last week, the Port Kebla SLSC had their awards day. Certain events are scored each week. At the end of the season, trophies are given out to the top scorers in each age group. Although she tried everything every week, Brenna was not often among the top three. What we didn't know was that their was an extra award...

Brenna earned the "Age Manager's" Trophy this season. This award is for someone who the Age Manager thinks worked hard, had a positive attitude, improved and always tried throughout the season. We are so proud of her! Better yet, she is proud of herself. :-)

My sweet little girl and her awards

B and our wonderful Age Manager!

Some of the younger kids getting their participation medals and awards.

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It's Finally Here!

2010-03-28T17:45:00.001-04:00

After months of waiting for our visa... weeks of waiting for training... days of waiting for the official document... It's now official.... I can teach in New South Wales, Aus! :-) WooHoo!!!

Guess that means it's time to dust off those teacher shoes and get on some 'sub' lists (it's called 'casual teaching' here) and get back to the joy of teaching! :-) Yippee!

Hopefully soon I'll be able to share that I've got my first teaching 'gig'... cross those fingers and say some prayers... (but don't hold your breath, because at the end of the week, we're starting another school holiday)

I'm a bit nervous about being a substitute teacher. That's something I've never done before...

Keep ya posted...